Dating 101

When did it become acceptable for men to treat their friends as people they are interested in dating? This weekend, I have had countless friends tell me that they too are confused by this. They continually question whether the guy is just a friend who enjoys flirting with them or if the guy is genuinely interested. What’s worse is if the guy knows that you like him and still engages in this type of behavior. Sometimes I really feel like asking if “Are you talking/flirting with me just for your amusement purposes?” In my opinion, it is just plain selfish and detestable if you use someone as one of the clowns in your personal circus. Is there some sort of test that you can give to figure out a guy’s motives? Clearly a bunch of women missed this lesson in dating 101…

Victoria's Secret is Now Elle's

I was having a conversation with my friend Kelly about the Victoria's Secret fashion show and it was pretty funny so I thought I would share.

Elle: Are you planning on watching the Victoria's Secret fashion show tonight?
Kelly: Yup, I got a flyer when I was in the store today.
Elle: cool. Those skinny hoes are about to make me feel bad about my dietary choices though
Kelly: I know! I'm turning my life around.
Elle: haha, Victoria's Secret is saving one soul at a time.
Elle: I wonder if i put on a pair of over sized wings and stilettos can i get any man i want?
Kelly: hahaha, that's why I don't have a man! I need wings.

So I wonder where a girl could potentially buy a pair of wings... hmm, maybe I'm going to need Selita's personal trainer and dedication as well :)